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New Year Resolution 2019 for Your Home
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Happy New Year, my friends! Here at Stay at Home Solutions, we really enjoyed celebrating the holidays, but we’re even happier to get back on track with our purpose to serve the Kansas City area and beyond.

Our mission is to help people figure out what changes they need to live at home safely and independently as long as they choose.

What do I mean by making changes in the home? They could be as simple as putting an automatic sensor night light next to the bed or placing the most used dishes closer to your reach. Some changes in the home may be more extensive like installing a barrier free shower or making one entryway stepless.

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Believe it or not, many people don’t have the choice of living in their own home.

Falls and injuries in the home are often the culprit to why someone needs to move out of their private abode.

Unfortunately, I’ve seen a lot of well meaning friends and family members make the unwanted decision to move their loved one into a senior living community or a nursing home. It’s hard for every party involved in this situation. No one wants to have their loved one move into an institution.

Let me help you prevent this scenario in your life! There are many preventable actions you can take today to avoid having someone else decide when you move out of your house. Make it your resolve to call us to help you navigate what actions to take!

I’ll tell you what actions Esther took to help her live in her home safely. When I saw Esther, she explained that she barely took showers because she was scared to death of falling while getting in and out of her shower.

I didn’t blame Esther at all. Looking at the shower I wondered how she managed to get in at all! The shower required her to step up eight inches and had a small, slippery built in seat.

Now, I know that doesn’t seem like a big deal to you if you’ve never had problems moving around. But it’s a BIG deal to a lot of older adults.

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During my evaluation, I noticed Esther was weak and needed quite a bit of help from her caregiver to get in and out of the shower. The chronic pain in her back and legs made it more difficult to shower without falling at a moment’s notice.

Esther lives in a senior living community. The director of the community explained that the shower Esther had was newly installed. It was their version of a “walk in shower”. Naturally if Esther wanted a new shower, she could pay for it out of pocket.

Sidenote: Why don’t these communities consult with occupational therapists? We can help them save so much time and money by not installing these step up showers!

Not to my surprise, Esther was not interested in installing a barrier free shower with money from her own pocket. “What am I going to do? Not shower at all?”

During my assessment, I measured the dimensions of the shower and noted that a shower chair with a backrest and armrests could easily fit inside. The shower chair would provide firm seating for Esther instead of the slippery built in seat. I recommended she install a couple of grab bars: one outside the shower and one inside next to the shower chair.

Sadly, the bathroom did not allow enough space for us to make changes to the step up inside the shower. Esther said she would just deal with it, “Maybe it will strengthen my legs.”

Esther already had a long handled shower head to aim water wherever she needed while sitting down. Sitting down while showering saves energy and prevents falls. It also gives caregivers peace of mind to not worry about catching a slippery body!

When the contractor came to install the grab bars, I worked with him on the best placement based off of Esther’s height and reach.

I love customizing changes at home to the client’s exact needs!

Once the project was completed and everything was installed, Esther took her first shower. She gushed about it over the phone to me, “I love it so much! I feel much safer!”

On my next visit to Esther’s home, she was late to answer the door. I felt concerned at first thinking Esther had an accident and was injured. Much to my relief, Esther came to the door and told me, “I felt so good taking a shower this morning that I asked my caregiver to let me sit in there longer.”

I can’t describe how amazing it feels to help someone feel safer doing what so many of us take for granted. Every day, we bebop along getting dressed in the morning, making coffee, driving to work, vacuuming, etc. We don’t think about what it might look like when we get older or if we were to have an injury.

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Now, Esther takes more showers during the week because she feels safe and comfortable. Her caregiver doesn’t worry about her falling as much while getting in and out of the shower. My work helped two people and gave peace of mind to Esther’s sons.

This anecdote is just a small slice of what I do for people in my community. It’s amazing to tell people what I do for a living: I empower people to live in their home safely. This is my purpose on this planet.

I’m challenging you to make a resolution at the top of 2019 right now. Your resolution is to take one action step towards helping you live at home for a lifetime. That action step could be many things: call me, look at my blog for ideas, watch my videos, or learn about financial resources for home modifications by clicking HERE.

Just learning about your options for making changes at home can be tremendously helpful in the future when you need it. Why wait? Do it before you need it!

Tis the Season for Granny's Holiday Gift Guide!
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Happy holidays, fellow adult children or adult grandchildren of the world! I created a lovely holiday gift guide for your consideration when purchasing a gift for dear Granny or Grandpa.

Naysayer: “You’re too late! Why didn’t you post this gift guide before Black Friday?”

Well, naysayer, I understand your frustrated cries, but I do know that there are procrastinators out there like me. If you’re taking care of yourself, your kids, and your parents, how do you even have time to plan Black Friday shopping? Haven’t you heard about how hard caregivers have it in life?

Or maybe you just need extra time to digest your holiday shopping options before making a money-based commitment. Either way, I’m trying to make it easier for you to get what your mature relatives need and want!

After much conversation with several grannies in my life, I compiled a list for your consideration this holiday season. Let the gift giving begin!

1) Roomba

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The Roomba almost did not make the list this year because it’s a little controversial for people who have a hard time walking in the house.

You see, Roombas can be a little too quiet and difficult to see for grannies and grandpas. They could become a potential trip hazard! We don’t want to give the holiday experience of going to the ER!

The reasons why we decided to place Roombas on the holiday gift guide outnumber the risk for falls. As we get older, it can be harder to sweep and vacuum in your home. It’s nice to have a cute little robot scurrying around and cleaning up crumbs off the floor!

If you’re going with a Roomba for Granny this year make sure you pick one that is a contrasting color with her floor. For example if Granny has cream colored carpet, pick a black Roomba! That will help Granny see the Roomba and prevent her from tripping on it.

Also, the internet did not fail me when I researched different ways to decorate Roombas. I saw decal stickers in every color and Roomba costumes. My point is this: you can make Granny’s Roomba stand out while it works to keep her floor clean as a whistle.

Another idea is to copy off Tom from “Parks and Recreation” and mount an MP3 player to the top of Granny’s Roomba. This is like a double bonus because the Roomba is cleaning the house and entertaining your grandma with musical classics from her youth! Genius!

2) Traction cleats

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Okay, this is a no brainer. It’s snowed in Kansas City like 500 times already this year. Granny needs some traction cleats to put on her shoes so she doesn’t slip outside!

Granny has a life, you know! She needs to get groceries, see the doctor, and show Dorothy who’s boss at Canasta. Don’t let the snow slow Granny down. Get her some traction cleats so she can make snow and ice her b****!

3) Mini Flashlights

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For the past month or so, I’ve looked at my clock in the evening and thought, “Surely, it must be 10:30.” Then I come to find out it’s actually 6:45 PM!

It’s dark out early in the evening. And Granny wants to go to your kid’s school holiday performance and hear Messiah at the local community center. Granny needs more light when she is moving in and out of cars and buildings. She needs to clearly see every curb and uneven paving in the parking lot so she doesn’t fall!

Get her a mini flashlight to stow in her purse or coat pocket for her to take on the run! Granny will appreciate you helping her see the light! (High fives self for the pun.)

4) Magnetic Door Stop

Do you know what’s super annoying? Holding the door open while you’re trying to get in and out of the house with your arms full of stuff!

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A magnetic door stop could make life a lot easier for Granny, especially if her balance is not as good as it used to be! Guess who’s not falling through the door (thanks to you!)? Granny’s not falling!

While you’re at it, grab a magnetic door stop for yourself!

5) Bidet Toilet Seat

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It’s time for you to become Granny’s favorite family member. Behold! The bidet toilet seat!

This gem will transform Granny’s toilet time! A bidet toilet seat with an adjustable, self cleaning water hose and remote will help Granny feel fresh and so clean even more so than traditional toilet paper can. The adjustable water hose makes it easy for men, women, and children to accurately clean those tricky places. Some models even come with dryers that gently clean your bottom!

Why a remote and not a control panel that’s fixed on the side? Great question! The remote will make it easier for Granny to reach and use compared to a fixed control panel. The control panels are usually placed on the right side. That’s difficult for a left handed user or somebody with a shoulder that can’t reach to the side or back as far as they used to!

If there is no electrical outlet by the toilet, not a problem! There are non-electric options out there as well. Anything to help Granny stay independent with going to the bathroom!

Word of warning: little kids love playing with bidet toilet seats and may need supervision!

Ultimately though, the whole family might want to stop by and use Granny’s throne to try it out. You may feel hesitant right now. But once you try it, you’ll want to install one in your bathroom!

I hope this holiday gift guide will help you find the best gift for your Granny or Grandpa! If you already purchased something, tell us in the comments below! Would you consider buying any of the stuff listed above for your parent or grandparent? Would you buy it for yourself? Need more gift ideas? Contact us to help your parent or grandparent live at home for a lifetime!

How to Pay for Home Modifications or Repairs
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Hello, my dearest friends! Let’s talk about the biggest hurdle to overcome when you’re thinking about home modifications or repairs to your home: money.

Many people I talk to say, “I don’t know if I can afford you.” I completely understand the dilemma. You want to make changes in your home, but your bank account isn’t too sure you can handle that. You know home modifications can help you stay safe and independent in your comfortable abode.

You’re right, home modifications are a key ingredient to keeping yourself OUT of a nursing home. But paying for them can be tricky!

I am a firm believer in thinking you don’t need to spend a ton of money to make your home safer! Unfortunately, I do run into certain problems that require more extensive home modifications as part of the solution. A common example of this predicament is when people need to use a wheelchair or power wheelchair and they cannot fit through the bathroom door.

The truth is that home modifications are an investment for you and your lifestyle. And like any investment, you need to buckle down and think about your options before making a decision.

An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.

-Benjamin Franklin

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To help you make the best financial decision, I created a page devoted to financial resources on my website. This page is specific to the Kansas City area; although a lot of resources pertain to residents statewide in Missouri and Kansas.

My biggest passion is to help you live at home for a lifetime. I am a huge advocate of looking into every possibility for people to remain at home if that is their wish. Click here to see how happy Mrs. B is with her home modifications!

My zest + the power of research = Home Modification Financial Resource

I am excited to have this resource available for you because it can be confusing to figure out what financial supports exist! If you want to learn more about a particular resource, just click on the link highlighted in red. Or you can contact me to answer your questions!

I covered financial supports like: Medicaid, grants, loans, tax credits, long term care insurance, life insurance loans, resources for veterans, and Kansas City area community organizations. The focus is on financial assistance for home modifications. Please note that home modifications include home repair, household items, and equipment in addition to structural changes to the home, like building a ramp.

People ask me often if Medicare will pay for home modifications. The answer is “No”. Medicare will help pay for medical equipment with a doctor’s order, like a hospital bed. You have to pay a twenty percent copay for the medical equipment.

As of right now, there is legislation for the Medicare Advantage plans to cover simple home modifications in 2019, like grab bars and shower chairs. If it goes into effect, many people will benefit from simple fixes to their bathroom or main entryway at home.

If this legislation passes, please ask an occupational therapist on where the best placement is for grab bars in your home!!! Occupational therapists have the medical training to look at your overall needs compared to a contractor or handyman’s skills to install your equipment. Your home modifications will go smoothly if you have a team that includes an occupational therapist and a contractor!

The worst anecdote that comes to mind is of a woman, Betty, I met in a nursing home. (Names have been changed.) Betty started to notice how difficult it was to step out of the tub shower in her bathroom. She felt like her foot slipped on the floor of the tub while she picked up her other foot to step over the ledge. Betty would reach out her strong left hand to hold on to anything to steady herself. She knew it wasn’t safe to hold onto the jiggly towel rack, but she didn’t have any other choice.

Betty didn’t want to fall, especially in the bathroom! So she called a handyman to come over and put in a grab bar to feel more steady. She paid the handyman with her own funds and no financial support. With the grab bar in place, Betty felt more comfortable with taking a shower again.

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Maybe Betty could’ve benefited from this? Photo by Pexels

When Betty was stepping out of the shower, she felt her foot slip again. She quickly reached across her body for the grab bar with her strong left hand, but it wasn’t enough. Betty slipped and fell over the tub ledge onto the bathroom floor and broke her hip.

It’s awful when home modifications, like putting in grab bars, doesn’t work out well for people like Betty. The effort and money she put in to install the grab bar to provide her safety did not turn out as planned. If she had an occupational therapist on her team, her money would not have been wasted. An occupational therapist would have helped Betty create a solution customized to her needs.

Don’t be like Betty. Be informed about making the best financial investment for you and your home! Look through this list of financial resources for home modifications. Find an occupational therapist to help you in deciding what home modifications are going to be right for you! Talk to friends and family about contractors they have hired in the past. Read this article on how to find the right contractor.

In the story above, Betty tried to prevent getting injured in her bathroom. She did a great job being proactive and recognizing she needed help. But Betty didn’t realize she needed an occupational therapist to look at the big picture for her tub shower.

I am happy to assist you in creating a team that is committed to help you stay at home! Planning home modifications in advance is much better than needing them right after an injury or illness. You need to do it before you need it!

If you know of a financial resource for home modifications that I did not list, please contact me! I would love to add it!